Today, especially, we remember those who lost their lives as a result of the terrorist attack on 11 September 2001 in New York – World Trade Centre. Almost 2,966 total casualties, among them 343 firefighters, one of whom was Lt. Anthony Jovic.
On that fateful day, firefighter, Lt Anthony Jovic was supposed to have a day off work. But he was called in to be among the first firefighters to arrive at the burning Twin Towers. Jovic’s fire station lost 12 of its brave men.
The remains of Anthony Jovic have never been found in the rubble and devastation of the Twin Towers – his burned and mangled shield was discovered later, during the clearing of Ground Zero. Although born in New York to Croatian emigrants Anthony (Tony) spoke of himself as an American Croat.
Dedication from 2002: “In those first weeks after Lt. Anthony Jovic disappeared with other members of Engine Co. 279 at the World Trade Center, his wife, Cynthia, concentrated on being strong for his two boys, Matthew, 10, and Peter, 9. So she had a little psychological trick she played on herself to keep going.
“I’d say, ‘He’s working today. He’s going to come home tonight,'” she recalled. “That night it would be, ‘OK, he’s working tonight, he’s going to come home tomorrow.’ Every day I’d tell myself the same thing.”
It was because Cynthia Jovic can’t imagine morning coffee without her husband of 16 years, a big kidder and hugger-and-kisser who never got through a day without several times telling her and the boys he loved them.
The son of a Croatian longshoreman who grew up in Hell’s Kitchen, Jovic, 39, impressed all his friends as being smart enough to win the big one on “Jeopardy!”
The couple met in Manhattan, when he was working at a butcher shop on Ninth Avenue and she, also a Croatian immigrant and longshoreman’s daughter, was working at a deli nearby. When a cousin suggested they all go to an Irish pub in New Hyde Park, Jovic drove to pick her up in Manhattan in the most formal manner, allowing plenty of time to chat first with her mother and father at the house. For her old-fashioned European parents, his wife said, “it was love at first sight.” For the couple, too. They married 2 1/2 years later.
Jovic joined the city fire department 12 years ago, about the time the family moved from Elmhurst to Massapequa Park. He was aiming high, and once he made lieutenant was already spending every free day he could find to prepare for the captain’s exam, which he would have taken in October. When not working or studying, it was miniature golf, bowling, and lots of swimming with the family in the backyard pool. They were so close, she could finish his sentences for him.
“We were the happiest when we were together,” she said. Cynthia Jovic was watching CNN on Sept. 11; she knew it was bad, because her husband was working with the company in Red Hook, Brooklyn, that day.
“When that [south] tower came down, his soul went right through me. I knew it then, he just went through me and I knew he was gone,” she said. His burned and mangled shield turned up in the south tower in November, shortly before a memorial service was held, but no remains have been identified.
The memory of that moment has become a source of warmth and comfort lately, now that it’s no longer possible for her to pretend her husband is coming home tonight, or tomorrow morning, or the next day. Now, Cynthia Jovic knows, he’s with her and the kids all the time. “He always told me, ‘Every time they take an ID picture, I try to look nice, because you never know when they might be using it for a memorial.’ I’ll be honest with you, I think he looks wonderful in the picture that they have of him.” — Elizabeth Moore (Newsday)”
Never Forget those that gave their lives in efforts to save others and those that lost their lives on 9/11!
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Neka mu bude vijecna slava.
Translation of comment by therealamericro: let eternal glory be to him
Lovely, but sad story. Her psychological trick brought tears to my eyes.
Yes I thought it most touching, too. Thanks Rachel
I have my thoughts on what really happened that day, but the super brave folks of the FDNY are, and where the best of the best. God bless them and their families.
Whatever the circumstance of what really happened, The Conservative Billy, the consequences were those that took so many lives and to them we bow, now and forever. Thanks on your comment
lovely piece, sad but lovely…
Thank you Mocha
Most welcome
Sad but Nice Story…
So many sad but nice stories about 9/11 Adrian Clarke I agree. Given the theme of my blog (Croatia) I thought it appropriate to share this one. Thanks.
9/11 will be etched into everyone’s memory for life. these brave souls who risked their own lives to help others are indeed heroes. Never forget and never forgive, many in the Middle East rejoiced in this tragedy. Let’s not help them now!…
Thank you Branko Kramaric on your comment, very to the point and close to heart of many
Neka Croatias gubitak biti svačija x gubitak
Thank you Shaun for the effort in Croatian language “May Croatia’s loss be the loss of everyone” . It’s a bit Google translate grammar wise but still gets the message through. Much appreciate the gesture. Cheers
Yeah I knew dialect issues would make it hard..
But I tried… x
My pleasure 😀
Yes it good and I actually think the auto-translators on the web are super at least you get a good idea of what someone is trying to say although these translations can be tricky and sometimes change parts of meaning of text being translated. But I often use google translate or others for the blogs in foreign languages I follow and don’t have knowledge of that foreign language but I like what people tackle in their blogs. It’s all a happy world when we find ways to understand each other no matter where we are from 🙂
🙂 Yup…
All it takes is a little effort…
There are so many sad stories about 9/11.
This is one of them. Thank you, inavukic
Thank you succesulpe – yes there are many sad stories there and each represents the other I think – we remember one, we remember all!
Every year i learn of someone new. It was difficult living just a few blocks from ground zero passing by day in and day out wondering whose ashes remained.
I can imagine how difficult it is passing by ground zero, psychologistmimi, I think reflecting on whose ashes remain there will never go away. In a way, that is another avenue of keeping the memory and respect for those that perished alive.